The issue of school violence are social public opinion high interest. The Ministry of education and training must speak up called "preventing school violence". The school and parents worry. Students, students worried ... All societies are worried. The question, fret, even pressing for ascending. These phrases, called sensible readers: "wait for the school and the family", "you don't touch", "doctorate is not designed to study", "fear of the next victim", "need a real lessons", "teach me must first understand the" ... Listen up, whether positive or negative thoughts, one reason at all ... In fact, the school is currently split left teaching to teach personality, just worry about knowledge books. Meanwhile, the social reality requires teaching the personality must saturate subject to quality education, the personality of the students not to moral subjects or subjects civic education. Right from the baby, the child should be entitled to treatment in the conduct, teach conflict resolution using non-violent methods. However, we cannot blame most for education though they have major roles in the story of school violence on the rise. Here the society must also look back from the way of life, the behavior of people that are closest to the child that the parents. Simple as parents teach the child with violence (beating the children), parents resolve conflicts by force, the seed of this violence will eat deeply into young minds. So the issue here we are working together, shared between the society and the school together towards "peace" tool to resolve these inconsistencies, conflicts in life.
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Vấn đề bạo lực học đường đang được dư luận xã hội quan tâm cao độ. Bộ Giáo dục và Đào tạo phải lên tiếng kêu gọi “ngăn chặn bạo lực học đường”. Nhà trường và phụ huynh lo lắng. Học sinh, sinh viên lo lắng... Cả xã hội đang lo lắng. Những câu hỏi, băn khoăn, thậm chí bức xúc cứ tăng dần. Liên tục những cụm từ, tựa đề đập vào mắt độc giả: “Chờ nhà trường và gia đình”, “Mong các bạn đừng vô cảm”, “Học thầy không tày học bạn”, “Sợ làm nạn nhân tiếp theo”, “Cần những bài học thực tế”, “Dạy con trước hết phải hiểu con”… Nghe ra, dù suy nghĩ tích cực hay tiêu cực, thấy ai cũng có lý cả… Thực tế cho thấy, nhà trường hiện nay đang tách rời việc dạy chữ với dạy nhân cách, chỉ lo truyền đạt kiến thức sách vở. Trong khi đó, thực tế xã hội đòi hỏi việc dạy nhân cách phải thấm vào trong từng môn học để giáo dục phẩm chất, nhân cách của học sinh chứ không riêng gì môn đạo đức hay môn giáo dục công dân. Ngay từ bé, các em phải được hưởng sự đối xử dễ chịu trong các cách ứng xử, dạy giải quyết xung đột bằng phương pháp không bạo lực… Tuy nhiên, chúng ta không thể đổ lỗi hết cho ngành giáo dục dù họ phải gánh vai chính trong chuyện bạo lực học đường gia tăng. Ở đây xã hội cũng phải nhìn lại từ cách sống, ứng xử của mọi người mà gần nhất với trẻ đó là những bậc phụ huynh. Đơn giản như cha mẹ dạy con bằng bạo lực (đánh đập con cái), bố mẹ giải quyết mâu thuẫn bằng vũ lực thì mầm mống bạo lực này sẽ ăn sâu vào tâm trí trẻ. Vậy vấn đề ở đây chúng ta phải cùng hợp tác, chia sẻ giữa xã hội và nhà trường cùng hướng tới dùng công cụ “hòa bình” để giải quyết những mâu thuẫn, xung đột trong cuộc sống

School violence is considered by many to be a serious problem in recent decades in many countries. In Vietnam, the most recent data released by the Ministry of Education and Training (MOET), in a school year, occurred nearly 1,600 incidents of fighting between students inside and outside the school (about 5 service / day). According to statistics of the Ministry of Education and Training, there is a fight for about 5,200 students; For every 11,000 students, one is forced to quit school because of fighting; For every 9 schools, one school has students fighting ... The problem of school violence really poses great challenges for Vietnamese education. Schools are the best environment to educate students about scientific knowledge but also to form, train and strengthen personality and morality for students and students; fostering our souls higher and purer; equipping us with a correct conception of life, perhaps a beautiful life ... But, a heartbreaking, painful thing is happening, making many people do educational work in particular, the main levels rights and society as a whole are worried about corruption, moral corruption in the school today is school violence. In the relationship between students and students: This is a hot and alarming issue, also an obsession for the whole society. Violence between students not only increases in number but also increases the level of danger. In addition to fighting, students also use weapons that can endanger the lives of others such as knives, guns, weapons of discharge, ... to control and injure others. The scenes of school violence, including scenes of white women dresses, white pants rushed into each other, torn apart, torn each other's clothes; scenes of students in this class and students in a school stabbing each other like scenes from a gangster movie ... being released online have hurt the hearts of people who are wondering about the future of society, of the country. In the relationship between games for teachers also happened many shortcomings. Due to being lazy in school, not serious in examinations, lack of status, many students with bad grades, being disciplined should hate and accompany their parents to assault teachers. This is also a phenomenon that hurts people's hearts because it corrupts the tradition of the "great teacher" of the nation. Many cases of students beat teachers and teachers because of conflicts and annoyances at the classroom or outside the school. The fact that the right and wrong were made clear but the damage caused by the incident was hard to compensate. In the relationship between teachers and students in recent times, there have been many problems. Due to lack of responsibility in the work and moral degradation of teachers, there are some teachers who have harshly treated students such as offending their bodies, offending honor, intimidating, terrorizing spiritual students The consequences are not small in terms of health and in order to set up the spiritual sequelae for students. Although the regulations aim to protect the rights and students themselves, the violations still occur frequently, causing frustration in and out of the school. In the relationship between teachers and colleagues also appears many deep conflicts. It may be due to disagreements about views, opinions, insults, and provocations that many teachers have loudly spoken at school, even rushing, causing serious injuries.