In a dispute, people often make assumptions about what the other person is thinking when they wronged that other person. Including "I" statements, which focus more on your feelings rather than on what the other person did, can increase your odds of reaching a solution with your sibling. Instead of writing, "You're always a jerk about my girlfriend," you might instead write, "I felt hurt when you said that I could do better than Jill. I love and care about her, and I hope in the future that we can keep our discussions away from my choice of partner," according to GirlsHealth.

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Before you bring pen to paper, think about the disagreement. Did a small upset lead to a huge rift between you and your sibling? You may find that the original disagreement is not worth the hassle of explaining how you felt and trying to get an apology from your sibling. After thinking about it, you might also realize that you were partly to blame for the problem. If that is the case, you might choose to write, "I realize that the last time we spoke, we each said hurtful things to each other. All I can think about is how what happened is not worth losing our relationship. I'm sorry for what happened, and I hope we can move forward," according to the Hallmark article, "How to Say Sorry"

I have some small problems with my sister.  First, we have differences in ages, so sometimes we had arguments, for example I like folk music whereas my sister likes electronic one, which creates the gap between us. Second, I often lack of space when I am with my sibling. We share the same room, sometimes the same clothes, the same shoes, books, etc, so I feel not being respected by her when she uses mine. Moreover, like many other siblings, we have competitiveness over study, sport or other achievements. I often feel jealous of her because of the fact that she is better at study than me. In short, there are 3 main problems I have with my sister. However problems we have, we all love each other and try hard to deal with conflicts as we are family.