11, playing
12, making
13, to have
14, ironning/ to iron
15, not having
16, stay
17, giving
18, stay
19, listening
20, to lend

1. smoking
2. meeting
3. to give
4. going
5. speaking/ writing
6. seeing
7. travelling
8. giving
9. advising
10. choose
11. playing
12. making
13. to have
14. ironning/ to iron
15. not having

1, smoking
2, meeting
3, to give
4, going
5, speaking/ writing
6, seeing
7, travelling
8, giving
9, advising
10, choose
11, playing
12, making
13, to have
14, ironning/ to iron
15, not having
16, stay
17, giving
18, stay
19, listening
20, to lend