Here's the correct matching based on the provided list:

1. **prepare** - **j**. dinner for the family
2. **do** - **b**. responsibility
3. **earn** - **a**. a lot of money
4. **clean** - **k**. the rubbish
5. **put out** - **f**. the laundry
6. **answer** - **h**. the phone
7. **divide** - **i**. the household chore equally
8. **wash** - **l**. dirty clothes
9. **do** - **c**. the heavy lifting
10. **watch** - **d**. favorite TV programs
11. **take** - **e**. the house
12. **celebrate** - **g**. birthday

Let me know if you need anything else!