An ideal marriage is one where there is more serenity than love. There is more respect than love.There is more need to be with each other than love.what I mean is the biggest Need for each other is to be with the other partner. Love here is a fringe benefit.

Ideal marriage has to be achieved with both the partners being focused on each other more than anything or anyone else.

While looking for a good partner Please do through homework as to what you are getting into.

Please Don’t walk mesmerized with the eyes, the nose, the car, the degrees, the beauty, the ab muscles and the other wows . Please see the compatibility, attitude, ego, humility and other attributes you seek in your partner.

This is the first and the foremost step to an ideal marriage.

Please choose you love with Eyes and ears wide open and not in the dream mode.Once married please work at staying together.

Choose not to hurt that one person whom you have chosen to live with for the rest of your life. Adore him, admire him, cuddle him, bite him, pinch him/her,But please make feel each other soo so loved that you make a place and live in each other’s heart soul and being.

Your love should be so genuine for your partner that he/ she would die for it, can’t live without it. That is bliss. That can make a base to an ideal marriage.